CFT: learn to treat yourself with the kindness you deserve.

CFT: learn to treat yourself with the kindness you deserve.

Compassion Focused Therapy is a specialist evidence-based approach designed for people who struggle with high levels of self-criticism and shame, helping you develop a genuinely warmer and more supportive relationship with yourself.

Compassion Focused Therapy is a specialist evidence-based approach designed for people who struggle with high levels of self-criticism and shame, helping you develop a genuinely warmer and more supportive relationship with yourself.

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What is Compassion Focused Therapy?

What is Compassion Focused Therapy?

Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) was developed by Professor Paul Gilbert to address the profound impact that shame and self-criticism have on mental health. Drawing on evolutionary psychology, neuroscience, and Buddhist principles, CFT helps you understand why your threat system has become overactive and develops your capacity for self-compassion as a powerful therapeutic tool. It is not about positive thinking or letting yourself off the hook. It is about developing the same quality of care towards yourself that you would naturally extend to someone you love.

Understanding the Threat System

CFT helps you understand how early experiences shaped your internal emotional systems, particularly your threat response. Many people with high self-criticism have a nervous system that was trained to use self-attack as a form of protection. CFT helps you see this with understanding rather than judgment.

Developing the Compassionate Self

At the heart of CFT is the development of your compassionate self: a stable, wise, and warm inner perspective that can engage with your difficulties without being overwhelmed by them. This is a learnable skill that becomes more accessible with practice.

How CFT Can Help You

Specialised support for a wide range of modern mental health challenges.

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Self-Criticism and Shame

CFT directly targets the self-critical voice that drives shame, helping you develop a genuinely compassionate relationship with yourself that provides a stable foundation for lasting change.

A supportive therapy environment at NI Counselling

Self-Criticism and Shame

CFT directly targets the self-critical voice that drives shame, helping you develop a genuinely compassionate relationship with yourself that provides a stable foundation for lasting change.

Depression and Low Mood

CFT targets the shame and self-blame that frequently underlie and deepen persistent low mood.

Anxiety and Fear

Many anxiety presentations are rooted in self-criticism and fear of failure. CFT builds the internal security and self-compassion to face feared situations.

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Trauma and Difficult Childhoods

CFT is especially helpful where early experiences have left a legacy of deep shame and self-blame.

A calm therapeutic setting representing specialist support at NI Counselling

Trauma and Difficult Childhoods

CFT is especially helpful where early experiences have left a legacy of deep shame and self-blame.

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NI Counselling

Why CFT at NI Counselling?

Why CFT at NI Counselling?

Specialist CFT Training

Our therapists who deliver Compassion Focused Therapy have completed specialist training in this approach and work within the evidence base developed by the Compassionate Mind Foundation. You will be matched with a practitioner who genuinely understands this model.

Local NI Expertise

Born and bred in Northern Ireland, we understand the specific cultural context of our communities and how that shapes people's relationship with their mental health and wellbeing.

No GP Referral Required

We believe mental health support should be accessible. We offer appointments within 7 days of referral, with no GP letter or waiting list required to get started.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is CFT the same as being told to think positively?

How long does CFT typically take?

Is CFT suitable if I find the idea of self-compassion uncomfortable?