DBT: learn to feel without being overwhelmed by feeling.

DBT: learn to feel without being overwhelmed by feeling.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy is a structured, evidence-based approach that helps you manage intense emotions, tolerate distress and build a life that feels worth living.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy is a structured, evidence-based approach that helps you manage intense emotions, tolerate distress and build a life that feels worth living.

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What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy?

What is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy?

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) was developed by psychologist Marsha Linehan and is one of the most extensively researched therapeutic approaches available. Originally developed for people experiencing chronic suicidal thoughts and borderline personality disorder, DBT has since been shown to be highly effective for a wide range of presentations involving emotional dysregulation, self-harm, trauma and difficulties in relationships. DBT is built on the core idea that two things can be true at once: you are doing the best you can, and you need to change. It combines acceptance-based strategies drawn from mindfulness and Buddhist principles with practical skills for changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours.

Acceptance

DBT begins with radical acceptance, learning to acknowledge your experience as it is without judgment or resistance. This is not about approving of what has happened, but about stopping the exhausting fight against reality that keeps suffering alive.

Change

Alongside acceptance, DBT provides a structured set of practical skills across four core areas: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness. These skills are designed to be used in real life, not just in the therapy room.

How DBT Can Help You

Specialised support for a wide range of emotional and psychological challenges.

A supportive therapy environment at NI Counselling

Emotional Dysregulation

DBT directly targets the intense, rapidly shifting emotions that can feel impossible to manage, building practical tools for recognising, understanding and regulating your emotional responses.

A supportive therapy environment at NI Counselling

Emotional Dysregulation

DBT directly targets the intense, rapidly shifting emotions that can feel impossible to manage, building practical tools for recognising, understanding and regulating your emotional responses.

Self-Harm and Crisis

DBT is one of the most evidence-based approaches for reducing self-harm and suicidal behaviour, replacing crisis responses with a toolkit of safer, more effective coping strategies.

Trauma and PTSD

DBT provides the stabilisation and skills foundation that many people need before deeper trauma processing work can begin, helping you build internal safety and resilience.

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Relationship Difficulties

The interpersonal effectiveness skills in DBT help you communicate your needs clearly, set and maintain boundaries, and build relationships that are healthier and more stable.

A calm therapeutic setting representing specialist support at NI Counselling

Relationship Difficulties

The interpersonal effectiveness skills in DBT help you communicate your needs clearly, set and maintain boundaries, and build relationships that are healthier and more stable.

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NI Counselling

Why DBT at NI Counselling?

Why DBT at NI Counselling?

DBT-Trained Practitioners

Our therapists hold formal training in DBT and its core skills modules. You will be matched with a practitioner who has specific experience applying DBT principles to your area of difficulty.

Local NI Expertise

Born and bred in Northern Ireland, we understand the specific cultural context of our communities and how that shapes people's relationship with their mental health and wellbeing.

No GP Referral Required

We believe mental health support should be accessible. We offer appointments within 7 days of referral, with no GP letter or waiting list required to get started.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is DBT only for people with borderline personality disorder?

How is DBT different from CBT?

How many DBT sessions will I need?