Childhood Issues

What happened in childhood does not have to define your future.

What happened in childhood does not have to define your future.

Specialist therapy for the lasting impact of difficult childhood experiences in Northern Ireland. We help adults understand and heal the wounds of the past so they no longer shape the present.

Specialist therapy for the lasting impact of difficult childhood experiences in Northern Ireland. We help adults understand and heal the wounds of the past so they no longer shape the present.

Calm counselling room with two armchairs for therapy sessions in Northern Ireland

How Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Life

How Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Life

The Long Reach of Difficult Childhoods

Childhood experiences lay the psychological foundations for adult life. Neglect, emotional unavailability, inconsistent parenting, abuse, or growing up in a chaotic or frightening environment can all leave lasting imprints on how we think, feel, and relate to others. Many adults live with the consequences of difficult childhoods without fully connecting their present struggles to their past experiences. Therapy helps make those connections visible.

Adverse Childhood Experiences and Their Impact

Research on Adverse Childhood Experiences consistently shows that early trauma has wide-ranging effects on mental health, physical health, and relationships in adulthood. These effects are not fixed and with the right therapeutic support, meaningful healing is possible at any stage of life.

Support in Northern Ireland

NI Counselling provides specialist therapy for childhood issues across Northern Ireland. Our therapists are trained in trauma-informed approaches and provide a safe, carefully paced space for this sensitive work. In-person and online sessions are available.

Our Service Areas:

Belfast City

Co. Antrim

Co. Down

Derry/L'Derry

Remote NI

UK-wide Online

Expert Methodologies for Lasting Relief

We don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. We utilize the gold standard of evidence-based psychological interventions.

Trauma-Informed Practice

All of our work with childhood issues is grounded in trauma-informed practice. Safety, trust and your sense of control are central to every session. We never move faster than you are ready for and the therapeutic relationship itself is a key part of the healing process.

Reparenting and Inner Child Work

Where appropriate, our therapists draw on inner child and reparenting approaches to help you develop the compassion towards your younger self that may have been absent in childhood. This work can be profoundly transformative in reshaping long-held beliefs about your worth.

Building Secure Relationships

Difficult childhoods often create difficulties in adult relationships. We work with you to understand the relational patterns that emerged from your early experiences and develop the capacity for more secure, trusting and fulfilling connections in the present.

Meet our Team

Meet our Team

Our team is hand-selected not just for their clinical excellence, but for their empathetic, editorial approach to modern mental health.

Our team is hand-selected not just for their clinical excellence, but for their empathetic, editorial approach to modern mental health.

Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Tory is a BACP registered integrative counsellor with specialist experience in complex trauma, bereavement and neurodiversity, including over ten years working in the field of autism. Flexible, relational and neuroaffirming in approach, she supports adults across a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties.

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Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Raymond is a dually registered integrative counsellor with extensive experience across community and private mental health settings. Person-centred, warm and adaptable, he supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, low mood and workplace stress from his Antrim practice.

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Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Steven is a NCPS registered integrative counsellor offering a safe, non-judgmental space for adults navigating anxiety, low mood, grief, identity and relationship difficulties. Warm, accessible and person-centred at his core, he works collaboratively to build self-understanding and resilience.

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Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Orla is a BACP registered integrative counsellor offering online and telephone sessions. Drawing on person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic approaches, she creates a safe, collaborative space for adults working through depression, anxiety, bereavement, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties.

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Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Sarah is a BACP registered counsellor with specialist training in IFS, trauma and attachment. Working through a person-centred and psychodynamic lens, she offers a warm, trusting therapeutic relationship to support adults with anxiety, grief, trauma, PTSD and a wide range of personal difficulties.

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Portrait of Orla Cogill, adult psychotherapist at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla Cogill

Adult Psychotherapist

Orla Cogill is a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist supporting adults with anxiety, depression, trauma, low mood and stress. Orla integrates CBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and EMDR, tailoring sessions to individual sensory and processing needs. She offers a warm, evidence-based approach, helping clients build self-understanding, self-compassion and practical coping skills.

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Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Robyn is a BACP registered integrative counsellor based in Banbridge. Warm, collaborative and solution-aware in her approach, she supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, neurodivergence and a wide range of life challenges, offering in-person, online and telephone sessions.

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Portrait of Michelle Duffy, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Michelle Duffy

Adult Counsellor

Michelle Duffy is an MBACP Accredited Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 11 years' clinical experience. Michelle works with adults, young people and children experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties. She offers an integrative, creative approach, including EMDR, helping clients heal and move forward with confidence.

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Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Tory is a BACP registered integrative counsellor with specialist experience in complex trauma, bereavement and neurodiversity, including over ten years working in the field of autism. Flexible, relational and neuroaffirming in approach, she supports adults across a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties.

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Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Robyn is a BACP registered integrative counsellor based in Banbridge. Warm, collaborative and solution-aware in her approach, she supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, neurodivergence and a wide range of life challenges, offering in-person, online and telephone sessions.

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Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Steven is a NCPS registered integrative counsellor offering a safe, non-judgmental space for adults navigating anxiety, low mood, grief, identity and relationship difficulties. Warm, accessible and person-centred at his core, he works collaboratively to build self-understanding and resilience.

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Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Raymond is a dually registered integrative counsellor with extensive experience across community and private mental health settings. Person-centred, warm and adaptable, he supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, low mood and workplace stress from his Antrim practice.

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Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Sarah is a BACP registered counsellor with specialist training in IFS, trauma and attachment. Working through a person-centred and psychodynamic lens, she offers a warm, trusting therapeutic relationship to support adults with anxiety, grief, trauma, PTSD and a wide range of personal difficulties.

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Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Orla is a BACP registered integrative counsellor offering online and telephone sessions. Drawing on person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic approaches, she creates a safe, collaborative space for adults working through depression, anxiety, bereavement, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties.

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Frequently Asked Questions

My childhood was not the worst. Do I have the right to seek therapy for it?

Will therapy require me to revisit painful memories in detail?

Can therapy help even if I cannot remember much of my childhood?