Domestic Abuse

Survival is just the beginning. Healing is what comes next.

Survival is just the beginning. Healing is what comes next.

Confidential, trauma-informed therapy for survivors of domestic abuse in Northern Ireland. We provide a safe, non-judgmental space to begin processing your experiences and rebuilding your life on your own terms.

Confidential, trauma-informed therapy for survivors of domestic abuse in Northern Ireland. We provide a safe, non-judgmental space to begin processing your experiences and rebuilding your life on your own terms.

Calm counselling room with two armchairs for therapy sessions in Northern Ireland

Understanding the Impact of Domestic Abuse

Understanding the Impact of Domestic Abuse

The Psychological Impact of Abuse

Domestic abuse -- whether physical, emotional, coercive, financial or sexual -- leaves deep psychological marks that do not simply disappear once the relationship ends. Many survivors experience complex trauma responses, anxiety, depression, low self-worth, and difficulty trusting others. Therapy provides a carefully held space to begin processing these experiences with a specialist who understands the unique dynamics of abusive relationships.

Coercive Control and Rebuilding a Sense of Self

Coercive control systematically erodes identity, self-worth and trust in your own judgment over time. Survivors often find themselves doubting their perceptions, struggling to make decisions, or feeling responsible for what happened to them. A key part of therapeutic recovery is reclaiming your sense of self and rebuilding confidence in your own reality and judgment.

Support in Northern Ireland

NI Counselling provides confidential, trauma-informed domestic abuse therapy across Northern Ireland. Your safety and wellbeing are our absolute priority. All sessions are strictly confidential and our therapists have specialist experience supporting survivors. In-person and online sessions are available.

Our Service Areas:

Belfast City

Co. Antrim

Co. Down

Derry/L'Derry

Remote NI

UK-wide Online

Expert Methodologies for Lasting Relief

We don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. We utilize the gold standard of evidence-based psychological interventions.

Trauma-Informed, Survivor-Centred Care

Everything in our approach is built around your safety and sense of control. We work at your pace, in a direction you lead, ensuring that therapy itself is never an experience that replicates the powerlessness of abuse.

Processing Complex Trauma

Domestic abuse frequently results in complex trauma responses. Our therapists are trained in specialist trauma approaches including EMDR and trauma-focused CBT to help you process traumatic memories in a carefully contained, safe way.

Rebuilding Identity and Self-Trust

Abuse dismantles identity and self-trust over time. A central thread of our work is helping you reconnect with your own values, perceptions and sense of self, rebuilding the inner authority that abuse sought to take away.

Meet our Team

Meet our Team

Our team is hand-selected not just for their clinical excellence, but for their empathetic, editorial approach to modern mental health.

Our team is hand-selected not just for their clinical excellence, but for their empathetic, editorial approach to modern mental health.

Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Tory is a BACP registered integrative counsellor with specialist experience in complex trauma, bereavement and neurodiversity, including over ten years working in the field of autism. Flexible, relational and neuroaffirming in approach, she supports adults across a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties.

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Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Raymond is a dually registered integrative counsellor with extensive experience across community and private mental health settings. Person-centred, warm and adaptable, he supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, low mood and workplace stress from his Antrim practice.

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Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Steven is a NCPS registered integrative counsellor offering a safe, non-judgmental space for adults navigating anxiety, low mood, grief, identity and relationship difficulties. Warm, accessible and person-centred at his core, he works collaboratively to build self-understanding and resilience.

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Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Orla is a BACP registered integrative counsellor offering online and telephone sessions. Drawing on person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic approaches, she creates a safe, collaborative space for adults working through depression, anxiety, bereavement, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties.

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Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Sarah is a BACP registered counsellor with specialist training in IFS, trauma and attachment. Working through a person-centred and psychodynamic lens, she offers a warm, trusting therapeutic relationship to support adults with anxiety, grief, trauma, PTSD and a wide range of personal difficulties.

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Portrait of Orla Cogill, adult psychotherapist at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla Cogill

Adult Psychotherapist

Orla Cogill is a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist supporting adults with anxiety, depression, trauma, low mood and stress. Orla integrates CBT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and EMDR, tailoring sessions to individual sensory and processing needs. She offers a warm, evidence-based approach, helping clients build self-understanding, self-compassion and practical coping skills.

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Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Robyn is a BACP registered integrative counsellor based in Banbridge. Warm, collaborative and solution-aware in her approach, she supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, neurodivergence and a wide range of life challenges, offering in-person, online and telephone sessions.

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Portrait of Michelle Duffy, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Michelle Duffy

Adult Counsellor

Michelle Duffy is an MBACP Accredited Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 11 years' clinical experience. Michelle works with adults, young people and children experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties. She offers an integrative, creative approach, including EMDR, helping clients heal and move forward with confidence.

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Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Portrait of Tory Stirling, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Tory Stirling

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Tory is a BACP registered integrative counsellor with specialist experience in complex trauma, bereavement and neurodiversity, including over ten years working in the field of autism. Flexible, relational and neuroaffirming in approach, she supports adults across a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties.

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Portrait of Robyn Lough, integrative adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Robyn Lough

Integrative Adult Counsellor

Robyn is a BACP registered integrative counsellor based in Banbridge. Warm, collaborative and solution-aware in her approach, she supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, neurodivergence and a wide range of life challenges, offering in-person, online and telephone sessions.

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Portrait of Steven Montgomery, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Steven Montgomery

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Steven is a NCPS registered integrative counsellor offering a safe, non-judgmental space for adults navigating anxiety, low mood, grief, identity and relationship difficulties. Warm, accessible and person-centred at his core, he works collaboratively to build self-understanding and resilience.

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Portrait of Raymond McLean, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Raymond McLean

Adult Counsellor

Raymond is a dually registered integrative counsellor with extensive experience across community and private mental health settings. Person-centred, warm and adaptable, he supports adults through anxiety, bereavement, trauma, low mood and workplace stress from his Antrim practice.

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Portrait of Sarah Etheridge, adult counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Sarah Etheridge

Adult Counsellor

Sarah is a BACP registered counsellor with specialist training in IFS, trauma and attachment. Working through a person-centred and psychodynamic lens, she offers a warm, trusting therapeutic relationship to support adults with anxiety, grief, trauma, PTSD and a wide range of personal difficulties.

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Portrait of Orla McFadden, adult integrative counsellor at NI Counselling in Northern Ireland

Orla McFadden

Adult Integrative Counsellor

Orla is a BACP registered integrative counsellor offering online and telephone sessions. Drawing on person-centred, CBT and psychodynamic approaches, she creates a safe, collaborative space for adults working through depression, anxiety, bereavement, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is therapy safe if my abuser does not know I am attending?

Do I need to have left the relationship to access therapy?

Will I be believed and not judged?